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Love and Discipline: What Research Shows the Most Effective Leaders Do

I assumed I knew what it took to be an effective leader. My first six months of leading a team consistently proved my assumptions to be wrong. I made mistake after mistake.

Yet, I knew, after observing the leaders around me, that leadership was a skill that could be developed. With enough work and effort I could to become a more effective leader.

The formula great leaders leverage isn't hard to understand: to simultaneously maintain high levels of love and discipline. But it is extremely difficult to put into practice on a consistent basis

This knowledge gave me the green light to seek out and learn what the best leaders do consciously and unconsciously. What followed was a three-year journey studying and interviewing coaches, organizational leaders, and thought leaders.

A common theme emerged around two core areas: love and discipline.

Love and Discipline

These areas can be interpreted in a number of ways, so let me define them to ensure we are on the same page:

  • Love (verb): To contribute to someone’s long term success and well-being.
  • Discipline (verb): To promote standards in order for an individual to choose to be at their best

By using these definitions of love and discipline, it became more than evident to me that the most effective leaders had a correlation in their ability to simultaneously lead with high levels of both love and discipline.

At the same time, a lack of either love or discipline, was one of the reasons for a leader to fail or become ineffective over long periods of time.

I didn't want to stop at the empirical evidence and knew research was required to determine if this idea of "love" and "discipline" was true in the workplace. We at LearnLoft conducted a study of thousands of leaders.

The study uncovered a direct correlation between leadership effectiveness and high levels of both love and discipline. You can further our research by completing the survey here.

The Welding Zone

The formula great leaders leverage isn't hard to understand: to simultaneously maintain high levels of love and discipline. But it is extremely difficult to put into practice on a consistent basis.

Our research indicated an area that the best leaders stay in, what we call the "Welding Zone."

Here are a few things you can do to stay in the Welding Zone:

Live out the real purpose of leadership. I have always loved Bill Gates quote about leadership: “The next generation of leaders will be those who empower others.”

Just this week, on the Follow My Lead Podcast, Leadercast CEO Duane Cummings said: “It wasn’t until I understood that leadership was about serving and pouring into others that I began to truly lead.” Bill and Duane are exactly right. 

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